1960
Easter
was on 17 Apr 1960. Grandma Ramsey was with us at almost every special event or
holiday. An example of the casual animal cruelty of the day- I’d gotten a live
baby duck in my Easter nest. I remember Winn’s Dime Store having crates of the
poor things, dyed garish colors, like living Easter eggs. The poor animals
almost always died.
I
assume these photos were taken in honor of my piano recital on June 9, 1960. I
played Fairies Bell by Clark Turner and London Bridge by June Waybright.
On
June 12, 1960, Mother and Daddy celebrated their 20th anniversary
and we had a family portrait taken to celebrate the occasion. I was 9,
Catherine was 14 and Madeline was 15. I’ve always thought they looked older
than their years and I looked dorky or retarded! This is the only photo I
remember in which Mother’s hair looks red. She’d always said she had auburn
hair, but I didn’t remember it being that red.
My 10th birthday, Aug 26,
1960 included a slumber party with
friends pictured on our steps, Velma Jo Horton, Linda Paulson, Elizabeth
Zapata, Betty Bridges. We played dress-up and camped out in the living room.
Above left, a snapping turtle
Daddy caught while fishing and gave me. The photo is from a negative that was
with my birthday pictures so would have been taken around the same time. I
remember the turtle more than my 10th birthday! Above middle, I thought this
might be from my birthday, but it’s a different dress. In the same group of
photos Catherine is also shown wearing a German/Bavarian style dress so it must
have been for some other occasion. Above right, my 1960-61, 5th grade school
photo, before and after a bit of airbrushing. The cleaned up version looks
better.
Christmas 1960. With Madeline’s pink gown and
Catherine and me in blue, we made a very colorful mix.
1961
I joined the University
Methodist Church on March 26, 1961. I’m on the back row, far left. The senior
pastor was James William Morgan. Right, Easter was Apr 2. Madeline in her
Jackie Kenndy-style slim dress and pillbox hat.
University Studios had used three brothers in an ad that ran in the McCallum yearbook in 1960. In 1961 they wanted one with three sisters. We fit the bill. There were at least two poses because another one was used to create the oil painting that was displayed at University Studios until we bought it for Mother and Daddy’s 25th anniversary in 1965. My dress was actually lavender, but to make us consistent, they painted it as white.
Left, March 1961, my 5th
grade class at Rosedale Elementary with Mrs. Crawford. I’m 4th from the left on
the front row. Right, me at Madeline’s 17th birthday party in July 1961. I’d
cut my long hair by then.
In the summer of 1961, we
went to Houston and Galveston. Left, us with Allen Ray. In Aug, I took a photo
of my turtles and celebrated my 11th birthday with a few girlfriends at Barton
Springs. We swam, went on the paddle boats and the train.
My 11th birthday portrait,
the ugliest of all I ever had made. But with only a little airbrushing on the
hair, I look a lot better, thinner in the face. The improved photo looks a lot
like my 1961 school photo. In the fall of 1961, I entered the 6th grade at
Rosedale, with Mrs. Geeslin. I did
relatively well in my studies. At least I didn’t get a note about my kicking
boys! Over the school year I gained 2 1/2 inches in height, but sadly, 13
pounds in weight. My test score for music aptitude was excellent. On Nov 5,
1961, we celebrated Grandma Ramsey’s 76th birthday.
Christmas
1961. In my Christmas stocking I got a bath set, head band, comb, crayolas,
sweet toy, little purse, safety pins, emories, candies, gum, Old Maid game and
a pencil. Gifts from Mother and
Daddy – Socks, blouse, slacks, pj from Santa, panties, doll clothes and case,
bride doll and clothes, brassiere, bedroom slippers, Nancy Drew book – Secrets
of the Swiss Chalet, Mr. Potato Head (when we used real potatoes!). That
doesn’t sound like a small Christmas to me! Patsy – 2 candles; Mike Carl – teen
time doll; Laymans – pocket puzzle; Stephanie – pink stationery; Marsha –
strawberry soap; Patricia - hand painted set; Rugeley – white socks, pink
socks; Alice & Murray - $3; Grandma – Mrs. Potato Head and $1; Linda –
bubble bath; Jennie & Jake - $1.
1962
I
wasn’t in my 6th grade class photo, taken in March 1962 with Mrs. Geeslin. I
must have been sick that day. I was in the school play Thumbilina on Mar 9.
Easter was on Apr 22, 1962. We had our usual photo in the front yard.
According
to Pat, the photo above left is probably from spring 1962 while he was
recovering from breaking his leg playing football at Wheaton. He and Grandma
had matching crutches. Right, a Girl Scout bake sale. Rainbow Grand Assembly
was in Austin Jun 11-13, 1962. Daddy was General Chairman. That’s when Mrs.
Whitfield gave me the demoralizing nickname of Little Miss Nothing because I
wasn’t a Rainbow Girl yet.
In
July 1962 I went to Girl Scout camp at Camp Texlake with Barbara Hill and Nancy
Cantwell. I brought a camera, watch and a plastic accordion! Right, my 12th
birthday photo.
August 1962 and the
obligatory photo with my cake before my party. We had cake and presents in the
back yard. Grandma joined us. The girls around the table starting from the left
are Linda Paulson, Elizabeth Zapata, Dana Handy, Brenda Sherrill, me and
Patricia Smith. I think the pink poodle mentioned in the gift list is visible
in the photo above right. I showed off my turtles in the home movie of the
event.
In the fall of 1962, I
entered Lamar Junior High School. Next, my FHA photo. Having turned 12, I was
old enough to join Rainbow. According to my membership card, I was initiated in
Oct 1962 at the Masonic Temple in Austin. The photo above right is from an
installation at the Scottish Rite Temple. My dresses weren’t very flattering!
These
images from Christmas 1962 are from negatives. I don’t remember us having
maroon furniture or two couches in the living room. A still from our Christmas
1962 home movie. Right, Grandma Ramsey was with us again.
For
Christmas 1962, I got a white blouse, gown, socks, silver tie belt, red
slippers, from Daddy - bk on archeology, Mad - Black purse, Cath - mosaic, Rays
- pen, pencil & stationery set, Mike Carl - scarf, David - Xmas ornament
candle, Sandi & Mike Layman - Etch-a-sketch, parents - bedroom slippers,
Grandma - cookbook, gray sweater, $1, JW Carl - $1, Alice and Murray - $5 dozen
pencils with my name on them. In my stocking – an apple, tangerine, doll with
red eyes closed hands in front.
1963
Pictures
of snow at 5409. The development date is July 1963, but was probably late 1962
or early 1963. Easter was on Apr 14, 1963; Billy joined us.
Catherine
had an Easter theme at the graduation party Doris Bowling gave for her. I wore
my Easter dress. On May 31, 1963, Catherine graduated from McCallum High School
and family gathered. I again wore my Easter dress. In the summer of 1963, I
attended my first Grand Assembly as a Rainbow girl. In the photo above right are
Ellen Ingersoll, me, Glenda Mears and two unidentified.
On Aug
26, 1963, I celebrated my 13th birthday with the obligatory studio portrait,
and photos in the front yard with my cake and with Catherine and Madeline.
Billy came by as did two unidentified kids, Mike and Sondra Layman? Since
Madeline wasn’t in the photo at Grandma’s, Billy had probably come by to take
Madeline on a date. They’d been dating since Junior High.
We
also celebrated my birthday at Grandma’s with Alice and Murray. In the fall of
1963, I entered the 8th grade at Lamar Jr. High. Above right is my photo from
the 1963-64 Scottie yearbook. I can’t find that I was involved in any school
organizations. That was probably because I was so involved in Rainbow
activities. I realize now that was a mistake. I should have gotten involved in
some co-ed groups instead of only all-girl ones.
An
historical note, on Nov 22, 1963, President Kennedy was assassinated in Dallas.
His next stop was to have been Austin. The banquet hall at Palmer Auditorium
was set up and we school kids were going to be let out early to go see his
motorcade. I remember us all being called for an assembly during which we were
told the terrible news and let out early anyway. I think I walked home. It was
Mother’s 52nd birthday. We watched the TV coverage for several days.
For Christmas 1963, we sisters made stockings for
Mother and Daddy and enjoyed our present and our pets.
Grandma was with
us. We got matching robes. And then shared the paper strewn floor with our
pets. Madeline is holding Fluffy, Catherine has the grown up kitten George and
I’ve got Mitty and Strudel. Right, my stack of loot.
1964
1964 started with a snowstorm that turned the yard
into a white fairyland. Smoot has photos from this same snowstorm in his book.
In June 1964, Rainbow Austin Assembly #5 went to Grand
Assembly in San Antonio, packed into our decorated yellow bus. Right, Madeline
and Billy’s engagement party at Grandma Ramsey’s. Pictured - me, Catherine, Ann
Stephens Cate, Madeline and Grandma. That’s quite a corsage Madeline has on!
Catherine was Maid of Honor
and I was one of the six bridesmaids at Madeline and Billy’s wedding on July 4,
1964. After the wedding, the family gathered at 5409 to eat and visit. Middle,
I still had my wedding hair and make-up in place. I was starting to be pretty
again. I worked at losing weight and started using make-up. The photo above
right is from Mother and Daddy’s OES installation. Daddy was installed as Worthy
Patron for Athene Weaver. I can’t remember if I played a role in the event or
was just there in my Rainbow attire.
My
1964 birthday portrait. Airbrushing helps a lot! I seem to have had a low-key,
family only birthday celebration. In the fall of 1964, I entered the 9th grade
at Lamar Jr. High. I can’t find any indication in the 1964-65 Lamar Scottie
that I was involved in any organizations. Again, Rainbow took up all my time.
Left, I helped Catherine
celebrate her 19th birthday. On Thanksgiving some of Grandma’s grandchildren
gathered for a portrait with her. Bill Rugeley wasn’t married yet and Charlie
was with his first wife, Ann Stephens.
We celebrated Christmas 1964 at home. Billy joined us
as a member of the family. Then we went to Grandma’s house. Bill and Ann were
either married or soon to be, and joined us for the occasion. Alice’s mother
Bess Beeman had died in August 1964 so Mr. Beeman joined us as well. None of us
look very happy!
1965
On Jun 12, 1965, Mother and
Daddy celebrated their 25th anniversary. We surprised them with the
Portrait. We’d been paying on it for 10 months. After it was hung in its
official place over the piano, we sisters tried on Mother’s wedding dress. We
all looked good in it, but Madeline was the only one of us who could actually
fit into it and button the buttons. In honor of Mother and Daddy’s 25th
anniversary, we also had a family photo taken.
I went to Grand Assembly with
the Austin #5 group. That summer we also had the official launching of Daddy’s
new, hand-made boat.
My 15th birthday portrait. On
Aug 26, 1965, we celebrated my 15th birthday. For some reason, Rachel Cavanaugh
and Mike Harris were also with us. I got the telescope that I had until we sold
the cabin in 2004. I still have the Exodus record and the astronomy book! In
the fall of 1965, I entered McCallum High School as a sophomore. I was in the
Pan-American Club.
Left, Catherine and I
joined other Rainbow girls at Rio Vista. The Cates came to visit. We celebrated
Catherine’s 20th birthday on Oct 30, 1965.
In
November 1965, the family gathered to celebrate Grandma’s 80th birthday. Then
it was time to celebrate Christmas.
Right, Strudel, as usual,
was in the middle of Christmas chaos. It looks like he’d gained some weight and
was starting to go white around his muzzle. We’d gotten him in 1955 so he was
10 years old, getting up there in dog years.
1966
Above
left, a still from the movie of Catherine’s birthday shows the three sisters in
the same order as the portrait, except now I’m the tallest instead of the
shortest! Celebrating Grandma’s 81st birthday and Thanksgiving at 5409 in
November 1966. These may be the last photos taken of Alice.
Christmas 1966 at 4312. We
don’t look very happy, except for Murray, which is a bit strange because Aunt
Alice was in the hospital. She had been near death but seemed to be getting
better and had been transferred to a private room. Murray probably thought she
was going to pull through but sadly, two days after Christmas, on Dec 27,1966,
Alice Strong Ramsey died. She was a very creative, artistic person with a good
sense of humor. I hope she had some happiness in her life. It couldn’t have
been easy living with Uncle Murray.
1967
My
last meeting as Worthy Advisor was in Jan 1968. Brenda Bickett followed me into
the office. Her mother and Elizabeth King are in the background in the photo
above left. Easter was Apr 14, 1968. Uncle Murray and Grandma joined us. Next
photo, Barbara Milligan and I ready for, I assume, the Blue Brigade formal. I
was very thin. I graduated from McCallum High School in the spring of 1968.
In
the fall of 1968 I entered the University of Texas. I went through rush and
pledged Alpha Omicron Pi sorority. I met Jason Pavlovic through a sorority
sister. In the photo above middle I’m in the outfit I wore on our first date, a
church hayride. I invited him to join the family for Thanksgiving dinner at
Grandma’s house.
The
family gathered for Thanksgiving.
Above
left, I was in the Sing Song concert with AOPi in Dec 1968. The family
celebrated Christmas at home and at Grandma’s.
1969
Above
left, my photo from the AOPi page in the 1969 UT Cactus yearbook. Next, from
the class photo section of the yearbook. Next, the photo that was in the AOPi
montage for 1968-69. Right, Elizabeth King from the yearbook.
On Jan
31, 1969, Smoot wrote a letter to his parents and mentioned the first time he
and I met. He said, “Last week was a lot of fun. Jason, my roommate got me a
date with one of his girlfriend’s friends and we all went out and had a great
time. We also went out Sunday afternoon and flew kites over at Travis.” I wrote
a letter to my parents in 1971, explaining the history of my relationship with
Smoot. “It had started a little over two years ago, in Jan of 1969. That was
when Jason and I first double dated with Smoot and Elizabeth [King].
On Mother’s Day, May 11, 1969, Madeline and Billy had the family
over for dinner and announced she was pregnant and due in Dec. In June, I went
to Midland to visit Jason. Mother and I hosted a wedding shower for Nancy
Horton.
Left,
my 19th birthday photo. In the fall of 1969, I did my Spook duty to raise
spirits before a football game. Jason wore one of my ribbons. Madeline and Billy gave a holiday party before Bev was
born. Jason and I and Uncle Murray attended. Jason and I set up Mother and
Daddy’s tree.